Day Twenty Nine // Refinement

Saturday, May 16, 2020


If you've ever been to my house, you know that is it completely spotless! All is organized and put in place and counters and tables are cleared and left with only a few decor pieces. The credit goes to my parents who work so hard to maintain a neat and organized space. Because of this, I've heard my dad ask us many times, "How come you and your brother can't be clean like mom and I?" Haha, so sorry, Dad. 

Reflecting back to who I was in college, I realize that I was a complete slob (so sorry, Vic!). I remember the shock my parents had when helping me pack last minute after graduation - even Nathan was stunned....and that's sayin' something! 

However, I can confidently say that I've definitely cleaned up my habits! Yes, my room still gets messy: my desk often becomes cluttered with all the paperwork I have, the end of my bed has become another clothing rack, and I have small, random piles of wedding items all over my room, but I try my best to clean small parts of my room every two weeks (yes, that's a long period of time but give me some credit, haha). I've realized, I can't stand living in a disorganized space. A clean room brings clarity and peace to my mind and has the ability to lift my mood. 

If there's something I can be proud of, it's definitely my car! I've managed to keep her clean for the past 3 years and I get complimented on how clean it is whenever someone rides with me. I will say, this is definitely something I've gotten from my dad as his car is literally spotless. I promise you, it still looks brand new to this day! I try to keep my car as minimal as possible - no pictures, trash bags, or decor around the rear view mirror. I need the occasional vacuuming, but that's about it. So, yay me!

As my wedding day draws near, I really want to continue to refine these habits of mine so I can have a home that is comfortable, homey, and clean for E and I. There's a deep desire in my heart to create a home that makes it hard for E to leave and eager to come back to. With God, I hope that I can accomplish this as a wife and establish a routine where I can maintain a clean home. It's not so much of perfection as it is to have a home that feels safe and inviting. 

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